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		<title>Committed&#8230; To Conquering Perfectionism</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know I&#8217;ve been absent for a while&#8230; and it&#8217;s not because I haven&#8217;t had any observations to share about dance or art or business. But I think I&#8217;ve been waffling on what to post and how to post it.  Which gets me to the subject of the day: commitment. I don&#8217;t mean commitment in a relationship [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know I&#8217;ve been absent for a while&#8230; and it&#8217;s not because I haven&#8217;t had any observations to share about dance or art or business. But I think I&#8217;ve been waffling on what to post and how to post it.  Which gets me to the subject of the day: commitment.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t mean commitment in a relationship sense.  This blog is certainly not to discuss those issues. But rather to committing to an idea or artistic endeavor, movement, choreography, or event.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a procrastinator, and I know that the main reason I procrastinate is because I&#8217;m a perfectionist.  I wait until the &#8220;right moment&#8221; to do something &#8211; to write a new blog post, create a new workshop topic, make a new flier.  And I used to be a lot more of a procrastinator, but what I&#8217;ve needed to do is just commit.</p>
<p>This applies directly to dance and to art in general.  Anyone who&#8217;s read <em>The War of Art</em> by Steven Pressfield (read it!) knows that procrastination is a form of resistance.  Resistance prevents us from moving forward, from growing, from making progress and making art.  My hesitation to write a new blog post is not only because I am afraid that this post won&#8217;t be as good as my last posts, but also because I&#8217;m worried about making this blog post the most amazing blog post ever. Or, what if this just isn&#8217;t good enough?  If I&#8217;d just sit my butt down and write a blog post, then maybe I wouldn&#8217;t be worrying about all these things, and I&#8217;d actually write something worth reading.</p>
<p>When it comes to dance, these same concepts apply.  I see students in my classes hesitate in executing a technical movement, because they so want to get the movement right. (I&#8217;m terribly guilty of this myself, not only with dance but also when I was a figure skater.)  I&#8217;ll try so hard to get whatever technique correct that I won&#8217;t commit myself fully to the movement itself.  If I&#8217;m learning a choreography in a workshop and I forget a section, instead of dancing that part of the choreography at half effort&#8211;or worse, just standing there and not doing it at all&#8211;I should dance something simple with dedication and poise until I can catch up to the song again with the steps that I do know.</p>
<p>What we need to do is commit to the movement with the mindfulness to know when we&#8217;re doing it incorrect, but at least we&#8217;ve given it our best effort.  Rather than tip-toeing around the movement in an attempt to get it right the first time, we need to just jump right in and give it a go.</p>
<p>We also need a balance between gusto and perfection. While I admire a dancer who tackles a movement or a performance at full-force, such enthusiasm can also lead to a messy and unpolished performance.  But what&#8217;s worse is when an artist or dancer agonizes over one set or song so much that they never feel it&#8217;s ever right to perform, and then we&#8217;re all robbed of sharing that art.</p>
<p>Perfectionism is the enemy of art.  I need to remember that, and I&#8217;m writing this blog post to let you all that I am committed to writing more, even if my posts aren&#8217;t perfect.  I&#8217;m also writing this to remind you all to make art, even if it doesn&#8217;t always live up to your own personal standards.  The only way to improve is to keep creating and to learn from our own mistakes.</p>
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